Chinese family looking for helper

Hi, my wife (30 years old) and I (35 years old) are looking for a domestic helper. We are a Chinese family, have a 2 year old child, and am expecting a new born from 1st week of july 2022 onwards. We are looking for someone with minimum of 2 years of experience, and has experience with handling new-born and toddlers. Importantly, helper should be caring and patient with kids, and know how to persuade toddler. general house work like cleaning / mopping / laundry is required. Our meal preferences are chinese and western food. We stay in a new 5rm HDB flat (3BR/2T), will offer a separate room for our helper, off-days to be discussed.