Australian family looking for a live in helper

We are an Australian family of 2 adults, 3 boys aged 9, 11 & 13 and a gentle labradoodle dog. We have been living in Singapore for 14 years and live in District 10, near Holland Village. We are looking for a lovely helper to join our family. My husband and I work full time, so it is very important we find a helper whose main focus will be on our children, and is reliable, responsible, honest, caring and thoughtful. 

You will need to have experience working for a family that has 2-3 children and you managed their daily schedules such as preparing their meals, taking to and from school or activities some day using public transport, help with homework, create fun experiences like playing indoor games or outdoor activities. You need to enjoy being active and energetic, we have 3 boys!

Other things we are looking for in a lovely helper is someone that;
1) has a previous employer that is willing to provide a reference
2) Likes dogs and is happy to walk her
3) Enjoys cooking, can follow recipes and will help us prepare healthy meals for our children
4) Will keep our house clean, do the laundry and ironing while the kids are at school
5) Is available to transfer in November, prefer early to mid November.
6) Has experience working with someone with extra needs (or is interested and compassionate to learn how to). Our oldest son has mild intellectually disability, so we are wanting someone that is kind and patient with him.
7) On Sunday morning is not in a rush to leave for their day off before 10am and is open to working for a couple of hours as my husband and I are both cyclist that ride early on Sunday mornings. We will pay extra to your salary for this
8) Is a good communicator, has a positive attitude
9) Is capable and confident to manage 3 boys if/when we both need to travel for a few days

Please reply if you feel you meet most of our requirements