Patient and loving children most important

We are a family of 5 including 2 children (4 and 2yrs old). Looking for someone who preferably speak some Chinese to work along another Filipino helper who speaks English with the children. Our current helper is very open minded, direct and fun, and we want a second person to help with children and maintain the house. Need someone who is patient, caring and like to play with children. Cooking nice food is a bonus or willing to learn to cook. Share a room with the 4yr old daughter because she is still scared to sleep alone.